If you are single and looking to meet someone chances are you may have tried to find love on the Internet. It is a very common way now a days to try and meet someone. There are whole new set of rules when it comes to Internet dating. No doubt, you have been warned about being safe online by not giving out your personal information and not telling too much information about yourself. Therefore, let’s look at the other rules that often go unmentioned when venturing out into cyberspace to find love.
1- First, you need the right websites for singles. A dating site with millions of members. You have a better chance of finding the person who is compatible with more members looking at your profile.
At the simplest and most basic level, you can choose to stretch yourself. A stretch is a step that you can take that will move you beyond your current situation into new territory but that won’t push you too far into terror and panic. In the case of an unsatisfying job, a stretch might be choosing to take a class about something that interests you outside of your current field. In the dating world, in could mean choosing to go out with friends on a Friday or Saturday night instead of staying home alone.
There is however, another popular paid this site site for Blacks that will allow you to communicate, by email, with a member who has upgraded to premium. Otherwise, if both of you are free members, the most you can do is to see who has viewed you, and send them a wink. They advertise that as a free member, you can send one free message to a member. However, what they don’t tell you is that you will have to choose from a selection of subject lines and unless one of you are a paid member, this is all they will see – the subject line. In order to see the full message or reply to a message, one of you must be a paid member.
Perhaps you had a glam shot professionally taken 15 years ago. While you could certainly add that to your photos, it would help even more to add current photos. Post flattering pictures of yourself smiling and laughing. If you attended a fun family get together where you were the volleyball champ, post a picture of it.
Be the person you would like to meet. If honesty and integrity are important to you, then do not lie in your profile. Also, just like lying, don’t post photos of yourself that are 10 years old and then be surprised when the person meets you in person and wants nothing further to do with you. Be Yourself!
OkCupid also do a great job at matching you up with suitable singles but you need to take some quizzes and tests as well as fill out your profile properly before their OkCupid bots can do their thing.
Don’t bother lying in your profile. Just like you don’t appreciate the cougar who puts her age down as 29 a good woman won’t appreciate you putting in your profile that you are 6’0 when you are actually only 5’5. Not only does it avoid the embarrassment of being caught in your lie, it also saves the concern that a woman won’t want to get involved with a man who lies from the very beginning of the relationship.
Romance is in the air and he wants a commitment with you. He tells you how he feels and puts you first in his life. He’s always thinking about you sending you flowers and giving you nice little gifts. In time he asks you to marry him as he is in love and you feel the same way. This is the ideal guy to spend your life with.